KeWang public opinion and China, a survey of 10208 people found that 62.9% of respondents thought the love blowhard ethos among young people is serious, 40.6% of the people who made it clear that "revolt" love boast of young people. Respondents, after 70 34.8%, 80 38.8%. (August 16, the China youth daily)
Chinese there is an old saying, that long stories do not pay taxes, meaning long stories of the cost is very low, and the upper and lower lips so move, they can blow to heaven. So through the ages, brag as a way to meet personal vanity, has been a lot of life is not how to flexibly and successful people use, enjoy them.
Never don't have any social survey center brag about topic poll, so for the popular newspaper supplement through the relevant organizations of the survey let the author feel very interesting, more interesting is the results of the survey: young people love in what aspects boast? Survey respondents preferred "connections" (65.4%), the second is "income" (64.7%), is ranked third in the world is "consumption" (62.1%). Other and "family background" (54.2%), "personal experience" (44.5%), "romantic relationship" (30.9%), "reading knowledge" (26.0%), etc.
Very objectively speaking, the result of the survey real reaction China's many young national psychological activity trajectory. In a legal system construction also shoulder heavy responsibilities, connections are still occupies an important position in the country, a person in society success, on the one hand, by one's own ability, on the other hand, you have to rely on human resources development, if there is no human resources, I'm afraid many things and ideas will therefore stranded, this is not the predecessors of experience, but every moment occurred in the side of the living reality.
So, in daily life, we also is not difficult to find such a interesting phenomenon: whether the students gathered, or party colleagues, or relatives and friends of the family reunion, the talk of the town in addition to children and work, finally often will consciously or unconsciously will tear to you my between his connections, can you help me what busy, I can use my relationship of any help to you, virtually, a miniature contacts relationships in a chatting built up, and each involved people are very enjoy this kind of "reciprocity" relations, but if there are some people no social relations, it is conceivable that atmosphere will be how disharmony, the scene will how embarrassed, so how to solve this problem? The answer may only one - brag.
So, for many young people's relationship resources show off, everyone actually all is be some doubts, after all, not to really find his work, really done, it really have to say a cry, "the elder brothers, true ability hi", if do not, next time do not taunt you be like you...
It is necessary to think about, what is the reason that our young people so love brag, and love blow own social relations and human resources, how cow? This is also the reason of national character? I'm afraid the reason is not so simple. When a social fairness and justice in a lot of time for located in human relationship, each individual pursuit of the so-called "fair" is only self can meet the requirements of the "fair", not real fair, so in fairness and justice scales tilt happens after that, a lot of people will use lies, or brag and language "vision" to anesthesia, fuzzy off the boundaries between real and vanity, in order to for his own humble and encounter injustice do some repair, but after brag, life continue, lies the pay after the psychological price will be bigger.
Brag to individuals is a self-confidence, for society is the genius of the deviation, let everyone need not rely on brag to decorate oneself, need to have confidence every citizen society, the development is looking forward to, he has the responsibility, the social development prospect, how far away from us?
